I have been dating around for a while now on good old Match, Bumble, and Boo. Then realized I had created a library of greetings for the not-so-faint of heart. Not so far out, it had occurred to me that I could share these out, perhaps with passionate word-smith hands. The words would soothe a gentle soul.
Meanwhile, the following question has stumbled upon my mind. What does the usefulness of a lets connect vs. let’s connect for a good old blunt?
20 Ways of Complimenting the Other
- Hi, Camille. I love your travel pictures because they bring out your passion for adventure. What places have you traveled to? What is your favorite Asian cuisine?
- Hi, Elizabeth. I love travel pictures because they bring out your passion for adventure. I prefer to be outside hiking.
- Hi, Ana. I love the city picture because it brings out your warm smile and passion for traveling. Tell me more about vegan cooking. Is it similar to keto?
- Hi, Dema. I appreciate your natural smile while showing the city in the background. What are your favorite shows and gardening pointers?
- Hi, Skye. I appreciate your genuine smile in the angel costume. We have common interests. Tell me more about your museum visits and your desire to accumulate intelligence. Is thriller like skiing?
- Hi, Jieru. I love the mountain picture and the effort you put into making it stand out. I’m curious to know the location of the snowy mountain picture. I remember playing with Legos, building large armies, and visually imagining the outcomes.
- Hi, Tarn. I love the mountain picture because it brings out your warm smile and passion for traveling. Tell me more about travel and cooking.
- Hi, Linda. When you hold your cat, I notice a naturally warm smile. We have common interests. I’m on board with the recycling program (ask me about it if you’re curious). Tell me more about travel and cooking, skiing, and hiking. Oh, and you and your cats paint?
- Hi, Melissa. Thanks for sharing your beautiful profile. We have common interests. Can you tell me more about your scar story, snowboarding, and food likes? I’m hoping to get acquainted with you.
- Hi, Shana. The ziplining walk brings out your warm passion for travel. We have common interests. What books are you reading?
- Hi, Vanessa, thanks for sharing your beautiful profile. We have common interests. Where was that picture taken of the limestone caves?
- Hi, Stephanie. Thanks for sharing your attractive profile. We have common interests. Can you tell me more about your art gallery and museum visits? I’m hoping to get acquainted with you.
- Hi, Arianna. You have a pretty smile. I love that it brings out your smile when you travel.
- Hi, Arianna. I love the mountain picture because it brings out your warm smile and passion for traveling. Tell me more about things you enjoy doing and if you want to connect.
- Hi, Katie. I’ve never met anyone with eyes as mysterious as yours. What are you thinking? Then there was lunch by the beach and perhaps a museum visit afterward.
- Hi, Jea. I love the mountain pic cos it brings out your warm smile and passion for traveling. Tell me more about things you enjoy doing and if you want to connect.
- Hi, Christina. I love your necklace. It complements everything else you’re wearing. I hadn’t ordered at 2 am before. What did you get? Let me know if you want to connect.
- The glasses look amazing with your lipstick. Oh, fill me in on your top three anime you would rewatch.
- Sunny, I love the boats and sky pic cos it brings out your warm smile and passion for traveling. Let me know if you want to connect.
- Wait, can I take a photo of your outfit? I want to remember it so I can recreate it later. Let me know if you’re going to connect.
Bonus 5 ways to use Language with Compliments
- Ni Hao, Ma! Wo Jaio Ming Zi, Vye. Wo, Renshi Ni. You look so confident, happy glowing. What is Kenya like? What’s that like? Let me know if you want to connect.
- Ni Hao, Ma! Wo Jaio Ming Zi, Vye. Wo, Renshi Ni. You’re triple necklace is beautiful. It complements the dress you wear. To answer your question, I am looking at who’s a compatible Zodiac sign. Let me know if you want to connect.
- 你好, Weiyun, I love the city picture because it brings out your warm smile and passion for traveling. It seems we have common interests. What is your best sunrise moment? What book are you reading?
- Ni Hao, Ma! Wo Jaio Ming Zi, Vye. Wo, Renshi Ni. I’ve never seen anyone look so ready to own it while making the dress look so fly. Please fill me in about your meditations and unique recipes. Let me know if you want to connect.
- Ni Hao, Ma! Wo Jaio Ming Zi, Vye. Wo, Renshi Ni. I like the flower dress alongside the beach.
In closing
If you found any of these helpful or inspiring, please let me know how they helped you and your dating story. Otherwise, here is a man handing over his heart to a goat.
Vyechi 
4 responses to “20 Ways to give a compliment on dating apps.”
This is a creative and thoughtful post about the art of complimenting and connecting with potential dates. The author’s collection of greetings and suggested language for compliments shows a genuine interest in getting to know others and making connections. Well done!
Joe Williams
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Thank you 🙏.
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Great post, it’s interesting to see how you’ve created a library of greetings for online dating! I particularly found the section about language with compliments to be useful. It’s always important to be intentional with the words we choose. My question is, have you noticed a difference in response rates between the different types of greetings you’ve used?
Jackson Jacob Wright
Marcus Thompson
Ella Jones Oliver
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Well, after speaking to my therapist and noticing that more people responded to me when I was using plain English and a short response. I got more engagement.
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