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Vyechi

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  • 🌿 Start Here: Welcome to My Digital Greenhouse

    🌿 Start Here: Welcome to My Digital Greenhouse

    What You’ll Find Here Vyechi is a quiet space on the internet to pause, reflect, and grow — without force.I write short, thoughtful notes that help you move through life with more clarity, calm, and intention. If you’ve ever asked yourself: — then you’re already in the right place. Who This Site Is For This…

  • 🌿 Grow with Less Force, More Flow

    🌿 Grow with Less Force, More Flow

    Intentional growth without burnout I write short, thoughtful notes for people seeking to grow with intention — without rushing, burnout, or losing their sense of self. If you’ve ever felt torn between movement and stillness, you’re not alone. I explore questions like: From my digital greenhouse, I share slow-growing ideas, reflections, and tools you can…

  • Generic Repository Pattern in C#

    Generic Repository Pattern in C#

    Have you ever dreaded writing the same boilerplate repository code repeatedly? You’re not alone; I will share my implementation of the Code First Generic Repository Pattern in C#. I will only include some of the code because it will make the post incredibly long. At the end of the post, I will share a Goal…

  • 6 Loving Messages and Self-Care: Unlocking Unconditional Love 💖✨

    6 Loving Messages and Self-Care: Unlocking Unconditional Love 💖✨

    While working on the 40 questions with a CoDA study group, I came up with an exciting suggestion. The idea is to create a “Self-Care Kit,” then insert loving messages and learn to love myself unconditionally. Then I thought, how do I learn to love myself unconditionally over time? I created a PDF for myself…

  • Become Mindful: Recognizing Cognitive Distortions and Finding Balance in Life

    Become Mindful: Recognizing Cognitive Distortions and Finding Balance in Life

    During a CoDA meeting, somebody mentioned a quote to the group. [[Like Hugging a Red Balloon Experience life and let go]]. I was still waiting for an answer when I asked the group about its origins. However, my gut feeling told me it has roots in experiencing life inside of overthinking. 💖 Become Mindful Recognizing…

  • The Interconnected Universe: Exploring Energy, Space, and the Human Body

    The Interconnected Universe: Exploring Energy, Space, and the Human Body

    Black holes absorb energy and potentially give rise to travel in space. However, they compete with the sun because they are wise and radiant in energy. In fact, desire is bright like the sun. If I were to look outward to a place, a person, or a thing, my desire would be just. The goal…

  • 4 ways not to breakup fast over food

    4 ways not to breakup fast over food

    First, let me cover “The breakup mindset.” In the dating world, there is a mindset of looking for things wrong in a person. Right off the bat, it is a negative way to build relationships. Read on to see how I will untangle the mess. If I had started a relationship, knowing the difference between…

  • 4 Effective ways give a compliment on dating apps.

    4 Effective ways give a compliment on dating apps.

    I have been dating around for a while now on good old Match, Bumble, Hinge, and Boo. Then, I realized I had created a library of greetings for the not-so-faint of heart. Not so far out, it had occurred to me that I could share these out, perhaps with passionate word-smith hands. The words would…